because of our commitment to each other, we respect these differences
Happy couples don't always make "I-statements" or start every argument with a gratitude. They don't feel Fourth-of-July-fireworks each and every time they make love -- nor do they expect to.
Don't let the stress of wedding planning ruin the fun of being engaged.
You can organize this quickly or take all the time in the world. Either way, choose when and where that make the two of you happy, and everybody else will fall in line.